That night, I finally learned how to communicate with my body - the real experience of using the rose toy.
My name is Linda. I'm 39 years old and live in the San Francisco Bay Area. I'm a part-time illustrator and a single mother. My life is very similar to that of many women - taking care of children during the day, accepting commissions to draw, doing housework at night, dealing with trivial matters of daily life. Every day feels like it’s been copied and pasted on repeat.
The funny thing is, I can be extremely professional when it comes to taking care of others; but when it comes to "taking care of myself", especially regarding my physical needs, I was once so unfamiliar with it that I felt like an outsider.
The first time I heard about rose toys, it was in the middle of the night. I was alone on the sofa, scrolling through my phone. I saw a foreign blogger talking about the concept of "self-love". She said, “You don’t need to wait for someone to light your fire. Learning to love yourself is its own kind of glow.”
This sentence felt like an electric shock hitting me. I clicked on the link she recommended and entered the page for the rose toys on vibelush. In that moment, my heart was racing.

Rose, not just a flower
I admit, at first what attracted me was its appearance. The rose toy was so beautifully designed that it almost made me forget its purpose. The red petals, the soft silicone material, the warmth when held in the hand - it felt like holding a real blooming rose.
But what truly made me place the order was that I began to confront my own desires - not carnal desires, but the "right to enjoy solitude".
That night, I placed an order and chose the classic rose version from the Vibelush collection. It was neatly placed in an inconspicuous box and was delivered to my doorstep quietly two days later.
I sent the child to school, closed the door, and then carefully unwrapped the package.

Getting ready before using it — take your time, go slow, and it’ll feel so much better.
Before the first use, I charged the toy on the USB port for about two and a half hours. The package stated that with a full charge, the battery could last for approximately 90 minutes, but in reality, each use only takes a few minutes and is more than sufficient.
I rinsed it off with warm water. The soft silicone material is very skin-friendly and has no odor. I ran my fingers across the soft surface and tested out the different vibration settings—there were ten in total, ranging from soft pulses to deep, intense rhythms. I remember I started to blush just by listening to that buzzing sound.
I deliberately lit a scented candle and played soothing music. I took off my pajamas and lay down on the bed. It wasn't to create any kind of ritual atmosphere; rather, I truly wanted to treat this "alone time" seriously.

How to use a the rose toy - Let me guide you step by step to experience it
In the end, the use of the rose toy is not complicated, but "how to use it comfortably" was something I truly understood only now.
It’s not a traditional insertive toy, but rather a sucking-type toy that focuses on external stimulation. It’s designed to gently surround the clitoral area and mimic a sucking sensation using air pulse technology. This design is truly very considerate for women, especially suitable for those like me who are not accustomed to traditional toys but still want to try something new.

The steps are very simple:

• Charge fully and press the bottom button to turn on the device.

• Adjustment mode: Press briefly to switch suction strength.

• Find the position that suits you best, and let the suction hole at the center of the petals gently touch the clitoris. There is no need to press down forcefully.

• Relax your body and let it guide you to gradually enter the state.

My advice? Don’t start with the highest intensity right away. The first mode is very gentle. It took me almost three minutes for my body to start heating up, and then I switched to the third mode, and I reached the peak almost immediately.
I even feel a bit regretful that I didn't try earlier.

It felt like my body was slowly being brought back to life.
The climax came quickly, but not abruptly. It wasn't the traditional "powerful shock", but rather like a wave, slowly spreading until a slight shiver ran through the entire body.
I lay there, gasping for breath, and to my surprise, a few tears had formed in the corners of my eyes.
It wasn't because of the climax, but because I suddenly realized: Actually, taking good care of oneself can be done in such a gentle, specific and enjoyable way.

Cleaning and storage after use — Don’t forget—your body deserves tenderness, too.
After using it, I gently rinsed it with warm water and a non-irritating cleaning solution, dried it with a clean towel, and then put it into the bag it came with. The rose toy is not heat-resistant and cannot be cleaned by boiling, but it is sufficient to keep it clean daily.
Every time I'm done using it, I'll recharge it and then take it out the next time I want to connect with myself. That little habit became a quiet form of self-care.

Regarding "When should I use it?"
Someone asked me: How do you manage your time?
My response is: Any moment when you want to take care of yourself, when you need a little tenderness, and when you wish to relax, can be the starting point.
I don't deliberately make plans. Instead, when I feel tired, lonely or yearn to release myself, I tell myself: "You can do it." Sometimes it's before going to bed, sometimes it's during a quiet hour in the afternoon, and sometimes it's after taking a bath.
This rose toy from Vibelush feels like a little secret sanctuary in my life. It doesn't belong to passion or romance; rather, it's a gift I gave myself, a form of healing.

Conclusion: How to use the rose toy? It's not just a simple action, but a kind of awakening.
If you, like me in the past, have doubts about this product or even feel a bit ashamed, then I want to tell you: This is not something to be ashamed of.
This is a kind of care, an affirmation of one's own body, and the courage to bring oneself back to the "sensory" itself.
The usage method of the rose toy is actually quite simple. But the real key lies in whether you are willing to explore yourself and face the voice of your body.
These days, I even jot down things like “Did I take care of myself today?” in my journal. The process of using the rose toy also helped me re-understand the words "intimacy" and "gentleness".
If you are still hesitating, perhaps you could start by learning about it. Not for others, but for yourself.