That night I tried the Rose Toy. To be honest, I was a little surprised

Honestly, I never thought I’d actually sit down and write something like this—about a little thing that looks like a rose. But the night after using the Rose Toy, I really couldn't help but want to talk about it—not to show off, nor out of curiosity. It was just that feeling of Oh—so this part of me deserves that kind of care too. It felt so real.

I want to write this article for those who are still hesitant and not quite sure whether to give it a try or not, and also for those like me in the past who still feel a bit uneasy or shy about the matter of "self-pleasure".

It's really like a rose, quiet and unassuming

The first time I saw the Rose Toy was on TikTok, and it almost went viral. At first, I thought it was just a special design and a gimmick. But later, when I saw more and more people leaving comments saying that it "changed their sex lives", I really began to be curious.

I browsed a few products on the official Vibelush site. The page design is very clean—no pushy ads or over-the-top marketing vibes. Instead, it made me trust it a little more. I picked a pink one. Not for any other reason, but because I think it doesn't look strange even when placed by the bedside. It's a bit like a skin care product, low-key and unassuming.

In that moment, I honestly didn’t expect it to feel that gentle

After receiving it, I didn't use it immediately. I took it out and looked at it for a long time. The packaging was very simple, but the texture was very good. It feels like a silky silicone with a smooth texture. Even the buttons are well hidden, so it doesn't seem too "tool-like".

That night, I took a bath, muted my mobile phone, dimmed the room light and lit a scented candle for myself. It's not for the sense of ceremony. I just wanted to give it a try and take it as a way to "take care of myself".

The moment I pressed the switch, I was really stunned for a moment—that suction mode was even more delicate than I had imagined. There is no mechanical thumping like that of a vibrator. Instead, it's as if someone is exhaling very, very gently, toward the most sensitive point.

I slowly placed it where it needed to go. Less than thirty seconds later, my body responded. And it's not that sudden stimulus, but rather a gradual and slowly warming feeling. Later, I came to know that this kind of "non-contact" pneumatic sucking actually stimulates the nerves more precisely and gently than the contact type.

Ultimately, this is not just about sex; it's more about taking care of oneself

I used to be quite opposed to sex toys. I always thought they were too naked and too stiff. It seemed as if using these things meant I'm not complete enough. But the Rose Toy doesn't have that feeling at all.

It is quiet, small, and gentle. After using it, I don't even have the slightest psychological burden. On the contrary, my mood became very relaxed, with a sense of relief that said, I finally gave myself some space.

During this period of time, I’ve gotten used to setting aside one night for myself every week. I don't necessarily use the Rose Toy every time. Sometimes I just listen to music and take a fragrant bath. But as long as I want to take good care of myself that night, I will take it out.

I'd like to share some of the pitfalls I've fallen into by the way

There are a few points that I really want to remind you of. They are all the paths I have walked myself:

The first time you use it, don't turn on the high gear right away. I almost jumped out of bed directly...

Remember to apply some water-based lubrication before use; otherwise, the suction force won't fit tightly enough and it will feel strange.

If you are using it with your partner, it's actually not bad. But it's recommended that you first figure out "which feeling you like" yourself before sharing, otherwise it's easy to feel awkward.

It's really quiet, but if you use it late at night, it's still recommended to close the door. Hahaha, after all, that gurgling sound... You know.

Remember to wash it clean and dry it after use. Otherwise, if it stays in the drawer for a long time, it’s just gonna feel weird every time you look at it.

Finally, I want to say: You have no problem. You’ve just gone too long without being treated gently

We have been taught to be "reserved" and "modest", but no one has ever taught us how to understand our bodies or how to express our true needs. While something like the Rose Toy seems to be just a tool, in fact, it is helping us regain a little perception of body autonomy.

The kind of happiness that doesn't require pleasing others or worrying about embarrassment is a very private yet extremely precious experience.

If you also have a moment when you feel you need a little gentle company, without too many reasons, just try this rose. Perhaps it won't change your life, but it might change the way you see that you deserve softness, too.

I don't write advertisements, don't make recommendations, and don't tell you which model to buy. I just want to say that on that night, because of a tiny "flower", I suddenly understood: Loving oneself can truly be a very quiet, very light but particularly real thing.